There are several factors that come into play, adding to the reasons why relationships end. As part of a romantic couple, you should know the primary reasons that affect the force of love in a relationship.
Love is a powerful emotion that binds two individuals together, like soulmates. It helps both parties see the world differently and positively, mainly if every side of the romantic relationship works together to keep the loving feeling alive. However, a lot of factors can also affect romance, giving rise to reasons why relationships end if the couple won’t figure everything out to keep love alive.
The Love I Thought I Knew
Donald Welch’s The Love I Thought I Knew is a play that follows couple Karen and Calvin Tisdale. The book is based on having love and trust for people. It also shares a story about life in general. In the story, both Karen and Calvin have unconditional love with each other. However, when deception comes into play, vital damage gets introduced, affecting the characters and their life trajectories.
If you have been in a failed romantic relationship, what do you think are some reasons behind it? Here are the top 5 reasons why relationships end:
Lack of Sex and Intimacy
Hopeless romantic people would say that romance does not need sex when love is the goal. Yes, it is pretty accurate, but your biology would disagree. Sex drive will make its way and connect two individuals in an intimate moment. Sex and intimacy increase the hormonal responses of both individuals, strengthening their bonds. However, some partners may not have the right timing or drive for sex and intimacy to take place. One side of the relationship may look for another sexual partner to satisfy the carnal drive, resulting in an emotional battle and, eventually, the failure of a relationship.
Different Priorities
Both individuals in a romantic relationship might have their own goals and ambitions, resulting in differences in priorities. You and your partner may have different goals in life. If you are not opening up about your individual goals, you might encounter problems with partnership. A difference in priorities can be a reason why relationships end. So, what are your relationship goals? What are your life goals? Do these coincide with your partner’s goals?
Lack of Respect
Respect begets R-E-S-P-E-C-T. When you are in a tight romantic relationship, you should be able to open up to talk about boundaries and respect. Even if you are a couple, each still needs time to be alone, with family, trusted friends, and ambitions. The couple should have communication and a proper decision-making time to figure things out, especially when it deals with finances, your children, or your future. Being in a relationship and marriage should open your mind to thinking that each move you make can affect your family. When you never respect a decision, your decision will not be respected as well.
Lack of Communication
In every romantic relationship, communication is the bond that connects individuals. A couple with poor communication can easily get into misunderstandings, serious fights, abuse, and separation. It is one of the stronger reasons why relationships end.
Lack and Loss of Trust
A relationship is fueled by love as well as trust. A couple should see to it that the other side of the relationship has built trust to keep the partnership alive. You, on the receiving end, should also keep the trust flourishing. The lack or loss of trust is the number one reason why relationships end.
Deception
Lying to your partner can cause serious problems in the relationship. You and your partner must be open enough to avoid or lessen serious lies that can be troublesome in your relationship, especially when you are married.
Possessiveness
There is a reason why you need to set boundaries between you and your partner. Too much possessiveness can suffocate you or your partner, making the relationship toxic and worth leaving.
Jealousy
Being in a marriage or serious relationship makes it hard for a partner not to feel jealousy, especially when it’s about friends that surround the other half of the partnership. You must maintain trust, respect, and communication with your partner to help your relationship remain worthwhile.
Infidelity
Most relationships end because of infidelity. It is the result of a partnership with a lack of trust, respect, communication, and intimacy.
There may be several other factors that affect an individual’s loyalty and commitment to the relationship. Each half of the partnership should be ready for the possibilities that could happen. Being open to each one’s concerns should be on the table to let the partners know the concerns and emotional needs of the other.
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